July 14th, 2009 Singles & Dating | 1 Comment »
ladyinred asked: After he was asked to leave the apartment he shared with his roommates. He knows I love him, anytime he needs money i lend him money, the other day i invited for lunch cause he didnt have money with him , after that we were intimate. The problem is that after a few days he doesn’t call me and when I saw him he avoided looking at my eyes…why??please help undestand why a person that you loved avoids looking you in the eyes….does he feel sorry for me? because he already has a girlfriend?
Judith
June 23rd, 2009 Personal Finance | 4 Comments »
caste asked: I’m a university student who lives off-campus in a one-bedroom apartment. My november rent is three weeks late, and my december rent is coming up fast. The landlord is threatening to sue me if I don’t pay my rent in the next week.
I’ve asked my landlord to take the rent out of my security deposit, but he’s refusing to do that.
I have no credit to make any kind of loans with, and have been rejected multiple times by various credit card companies. I just need to live in this place for another month, and then the school semester will end.
I just need a place that will lend me $1500 to $2000 fast just until I can live out the lease and get my security deposit back, which then I can use to pay back my loan.
Does anyone know a place where I can borrow money fast with no credit and no asset?
Kim
May 14th, 2009 Polls & Surveys | 2 Comments »
what asked: I always heard the person upstairs and now that person moved. I came to reconize the sound of somone up there or not. So after this person moved There was so much silence, and no creaks of any kind.So I know this in the day it is being remodeled and the managers give the key to the place like they trust anyone.They do not care about this place really.Anyway Now for 2 or 3 days I heard some creaks up there just now and last night I herad walking for sure.What on earth is going on here? Could they be lending it out illegaly or someone satying there? I know noone moved in yet because they just started remodeling and it takes some time.
Tanya
April 13th, 2009 Other - Family & Relationships | 6 Comments »
Martha L asked: I have a new friend. She’s bi and I’m gay and she’s aware that I’m lesbian. But since I’m new in town, I just want to get to know someone. I’m interested in her somewhat but not that strongly since I hardly know her. But over the last week, I’ve noticed she only talks much when we’re out in public. She’s lent me music and movies that she thought I’d like, but she doesn’t offer to discuss anything or hang around her apartment. I lent her some of my movies, but I don’t think she’s watched them. It appears that she may be just using me to have me drive her around for errands.
At her apartment, we’ll chat a bit while she gets ready to go. Once, when she was at my place, conversation lagged for a bit and *right* as she finished eating, she bolted and started getting ready to leave. I thought I’d said something wrong, but she doesn’t appear mad.
What gives? Don’t friends enjoy each others company or just hang out together without it involving food or errands?
Brittany
April 6th, 2009 Renting & Real Estate | 4 Comments »
Laura asked: More details to prevent some of the sarcastic/unhelpful answers I got the first time around:
We both have excellent credit.
We would pay with student loans
In lieu of purchasing, we will have to rent an apartment and use student loans to pay the rent - in our city, we are looking at somewhere between $1000 and $1500 for a one bedroom. Thus, purchasing and paying into something seems preferable to watching the rent fly out the window every month.
We were specifically looking for a program that caters to grad/professional students. We anticipate making over $300k combined in 2 1/2 years.
Please don’t answer if you can’t offer any helpful information. We know that this is not the best situation for home purchase, but are trying to work with our options.
Thanks!
Thelma
March 26th, 2009 Military | 13 Comments »

lati2118 asked: I recently found out that the man I have been seeing for the past several months is married. I received an anonymous text message notifying me of this fact and when I confronted him about it he confessed. I immediately ended the relationship and told him that I would be coming to get some belongings that were left at his apartment during the week and that I wanted back the money I had lent him. Ever since this conversation I have been unable to reach him. He is never at home and is ignoring my phone calls. My friend who is a police officer said it would be unlikely that the police would get involved as this would be considered a civil matter and not criminal and the amount owed to me really isn’t worth the hassle of a lawsuit. He is in the military and someone suggested to me that I contact his first sergeant about this matter as he or she would probably be able to “prompt” him to do the right thing. I’m not looking to get him into major trouble, contact his wife or anything like that….I simply want what is rightfully mine. Would contacting his higher ups do the trick or is this a waste of time?
I don’t want to get him into a lot of trouble I just want my things back. I’ve tried every avenue of communication known to man and he is just ignoring me which is really my only reason for resorting to such drastic measures. His wife is currently not living with him. From what he told me, she is currently finishing school and they agreed that she would stay put until she finished and then join him later. She is several states away so he was very easily able to live the life of a bachelor.
Ethel
March 24th, 2009 Glasgow | 2 Comments »
EuropeanGuy asked: Can anybody living in Glasgow please give me an estimate of food, electrical, water and rental expenses for one person, who wants to lent a furnished one bedroom apartment near University of Glasgow? Thanks.
Brenda
March 21st, 2009 Friends | 3 Comments »
hilary m asked: My father and grandfather are each worth multi millions due to their businesses. I am so sick and tired of everyone assuming that I am rich because my family is…I’m 19, I do not drive a nice, or even decent, car, I live in an efficiency in an upper middle class apartment complex, and I work at a retail store for seven an hour!
I quit accepting money from them when I moved out of the house about a year ago. I get people asking me ALL THE TIME to lend them money, or to have my family donate to whatever cause.
I am fed up! Yes, I want to be wealthy too, but I want to work for it just like my family did, not just have it handed to me.
What would you do in this situation? What would you tell your friends?
Thanks!
Carol
February 22nd, 2009 Law Enforcement & Police | 6 Comments »
Aditya G asked: Hi
My Friend parked his car over at my apartment.He faxed me a letter saying that he is lending me the car and my Apartment has no liability in case of any damage.But what if it gets stolen,Who is responbile?
Thanks
April
February 15th, 2009 Words & Wordplay | 8 Comments »
JAY asked: A. We decided that we should not lend her the money, and that we should explain out decision.
B. Everyone thougt the car had stopped, not broken down.
C. Jennie decided not to go out in the evening perferring to enjoy the quiet in her apartment.
D. Everyone knows that July 4, 1776, was a memorable day in american history.
Jill