Martha L asked:


I have a new friend. She’s bi and I’m gay and she’s aware that I’m lesbian. But since I’m new in town, I just want to get to know someone. I’m interested in her somewhat but not that strongly since I hardly know her. But over the last week, I’ve noticed she only talks much when we’re out in public. She’s lent me music and movies that she thought I’d like, but she doesn’t offer to discuss anything or hang around her apartment. I lent her some of my movies, but I don’t think she’s watched them. It appears that she may be just using me to have me drive her around for errands.

At her apartment, we’ll chat a bit while she gets ready to go. Once, when she was at my place, conversation lagged for a bit and *right* as she finished eating, she bolted and started getting ready to leave. I thought I’d said something wrong, but she doesn’t appear mad.

What gives? Don’t friends enjoy each others company or just hang out together without it involving food or errands?

Brittany

gailmckown asked:


I moved out 2 months premature because he made my life a living hell, but am still bound by lease to pay rent through that time, and I just got a phone call asking if I could give my passcard and key to my ex’s girlfriend because their schedules are different. Is it rude of me to not lend it, especially considering I still have things I need to get out of there on my time?

Victor